“I’m in if you are in...” Juno 2007
Jennifer Garner mentioned this movie today in one of her cooking 🍳 videos & I was able recall it... I remember watching it as a 12 year old, I looked up to her cuz her character was very strong, sensible & independent, she was relatively more beautiful and matured compared to High School Student Juno who was still learning about life and different kinds of people, relationships, etc. I’m not a huge fan of this movie probably because I’m not much into Romance/Drama but I really liked the production, set design, character development & each character’s individual style (obviously)... As women, I think we have to support each other instead of being “selfish” or jealous, it’s appalling to see so many girls encouraging today’s trends & serving what guys want on a silver platter like a subservient... instead of speaking up against them, they are literally saying it’s okay to be seen as a slut. It might be easier for those who are better looking but things have become much worse for “ugly” girls, in a superficial world like this where love which was blind now barely exists, we are perceived “inéligible” & “useless” and NO all those “inclusive” marketing campaigns aren’t helping... if they would have, we wouldn’t have been ALONE today.
I hope things will #change 😢 someday... I hope our time will come before it is too late.
I had shared this a while back & I had to face a lot of adversity because of it...
You want this corona shit to be over?
Then please help our world regain its balance, be FAIR;
STOP accommodating ONLY Fat people, stop encouraging obesity, be inclusive... Zara, H&M are you listening?
STOP using people, playing with their feelings, exploiting vulnerable helpless girls, stop seeking “friends with benefits”, learn to be a good friend first, learn to forgive learn to love, learn to talk & respect us
STOP worshipping vulgarity on Internet BLOCK THE GODDAMN KARDASHIAN CLAN
STOP making money from cute Babies, Kids & Pets, don’t rob them off their childhood days...
STOP expecting girls to have SHAPELESS BODIES with BIG ASSES, BOOBS, LIPS, EYES & A TINY WAIST... Stop EXPECTING US TO LAUGH OR SMILE ACQUIESCENTLY WHEN U TRASH TALK, We feel like throwing up!
STOP NORMALISING D R U G S
I MEAN WTF?
Stop NORMALISING GENDERLESS-NESS STOP forcing your kid to show up in his school in a “tutu skirt” & STOP forcing girls to get a Bob-Cut!
STOP SUBLIMATING CHAUVINISM & MISOGYNY + FEMALE COMMODITISATION and OBJECTIFICATION like casual sexism using nothing but the same old
“TOXIC FEMINISM”
STOP COMPARING LOVE WITH SEX STOP MAKING PPL BEG STOP HUMILIATING, TARGETING THEM, STOP making the world a sad, lonely, “ugly”, unliveable place... STOP MAKING PORNO SHOWS FOR ENTERTAINMENT THEY WILL NEVER REPLACE THOSE GOOD OL’ FAMILY SITCOMS & TV days... STOP FAKING, START LIVING!
If you don’t believe me, read this:
I’m not trying to be cynical but there’s an account/blog that I used to follow for beauty tips and stuff, it was started by a former model... I once tweeted something & I saw her posting about it, I realised she’d stalked me on twitter, she then shared aesthetic interior images and I knew I was certainly being stalked, I obviously didn’t mind that but then as soon as I shared about all these designers & celebs who post nude photos on social media and how it’s impacting young minds SHE started SPITING ME by specifically sharing their posts (the ones I’d named), I ignored that, then I shared about Corona (whatever’s in the previous paragraph) and how the world has become more unfair, more cheap and since then she’s been posting & sharing accounts of FAT OBESE People with COMPLETELY NUDE PHOTOS... I didn’t expect this from her... For the last time, it’s NOT ARTISTIC it’s VULGAR. One of the accounts she’s shared has all sorts of things you wouldn’t want to see on social media, not because you can’t stand a naked fatso but because it’s unacceptable, imbecilic, obscene, crude, lascivious, the owner runs another biz profile which goes by the name “fude” & I’m assuming it means Nude Food by looking at her pics, she’s standing completely naked in a room full of people having a dinner party which leaves no room for ambiguity - it’s explicitly suggestive of Female Objectification & how appetising the female form is...
We are more than just a body, we have a heart, emotions and feelings, we are intelligent and much more stronger than you can ever imagine. I’m not a prey, take me out for a meal, dont make me one.
I’m not sharing some catholic narrative or circulating “End of Times” pamphlets, is she a nihilist? Is being blasphemous that modern? No one was trying to have a “Holier than thou” attitude... we ourselves are agnostic but we do believe in spiritual help, it’s always good to have some faith especially if you’ve ran out of hope... and even if God exists, he cannot physically help us so we’ll have to help each other, that’s how it works. Also, you can’t turn social media into pornhub just to generate more income, all this exposure is not only violating young minds but also making our lives difficult as adults, it’s disturbing, girls are becoming more insecure cuz it’s adding more pressure to be a h o e like these people, guys are expecting nothing less, you yourself are happily married, most of you’ll have kids so you are damn indifferent! You can at least be somewhat empathetic. Girls get raped cuz all sorts of cheap men, be it uneducated, illiterate or well read... they pounce on us after seeing your vulgar pictures on intérnet.
*smirks* I’m literally smirking right now.
The reason why I said people should stop monetising over cute babies & kids was due to these facts:
Yes some kids can brighten up your day with their chuckles and cute antics but then there are also some “adults” who are turning it into a home grown business...
I know families where they pressurise & exploit their own kids by forcing them to flaunt their capabilities, talents or prowess especially when they gain recognition as child prodigies. There are many like them, these kids grow up before time... There was one family which was featured in many talk shows, now a lot was going underneath which wasn’t apparent at first especially in all that fad, they would force their 2 year old kid to sing, and these weren’t homemade videos, they were full on music videos, also if you know one has to stop their breath while singing, so she would obviously shudder cuz she was just a baby, she wasn’t supposed you do that, the father inspite of being fit & healthy wanted to retire before 30 to chase his “unfulfilled dreams” and he always seemed very uptight & rude with her, on top of that, he was earning through her, she was forced to sing even when she wasn’t in the mood, they kept having babies to attract more attention on social media and the responsibilities kept piling up, I felt so bad for her... unfortunately a lot of kids have to go through that. This kid same kid, when she grew up & she was a 3-4 yr old toddler, she received doctor set for her birthday... and out of excitement she immediately asked her dad to play with her, as guessed, he wasn’t that involved and was again very reluctant; I was initially happy to see that it wasn’t affecting her... but she proved me wrong, children understand everything, moreover it leaves a terrible impact on their young, sensitive minds and even if they never let it surface, it all builds up like a lump in the throat and eventually they have an outburst. What’s worse is that, it stays with them for the rest of their lives. She diagnosed him with something & although she wasn’t trying to be sarcastic her diagnosis was spot on! She said very innocently... while filling the “prescription”... “Dad, I think you have an attitude problem, I’m gonna give you some antibiotics.”
Next, there was one more stupid family, all clad head to toe in Burberry if you see their Christmas card, they too had several babies after one of them went viral... and they are not the only ones, now these kids are born with genetic disorders, some of them don’t even look normal yet it doesn’t discourage their parents from having more & more children and the reason why they are born like that is because there is hardly any gap between these pregnancies, which isn’t recommended at all, some of them are so greedy and desperate they literally adopt kids or get artificial insemination done which again leads to all those disorders or disfigurations; I feel so sorry for those children who inspite of all that are given lots of exposure, they don’t even care how they’d feel when they’ll grow up, Internet is a place where everything gets viral, it’s shared multiple number of times & nothing can be UNDONE.
So please think before doing all this... that’s all I had to say.
